We are GOD’s Greatest creation. We are all here to serve different purpose. Yet, sometimes we doubt ourselves. We take another person’s opinion so personally, that we want to change our self.
I am not saying changing yourself is always wrong. But it is wrong, if you are doing so for the sake of others. It is wrong, if that change stops you becoming you. It’s your life and live it in your way.
I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feetMahatma Gandhi
Sometimes we see people are comparing us with others and we start seeing our self as imperfect. We then want to be like him/her. Don’t you ever wish to be somebody else. Just establish your own identity and maintain it.
“Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else” ~ Judy Garland
No matter how you change yourself to please others, you will still find some who are not happy the way you are.
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s lifeSteve Jobs
Listen to your inner voice, Be yourself. And It is always easier to be yourself than being somebody else. Live for yourself first, only then you will able to do live for others.
Take an example, Sometimes we achieve some great piece of success in our job, doing hard work or doing overtime. We feel happy just because our boss is happy with our work. But it happens only after you got good result. Now if you compare it with, when you are playing your favorite sport. Do you feel happy only if you win. No, You are happy for most of the time you are playing. Because you are playing it for yourself first. Each part of your body says thanks to you and you feel alive.
So never stop doing things for yourself. In today’s world almost everyone has to wear a mask on the face at one time or another. But never ever let that mask become your face. Unmask yourself, whenever possible.
Be honest with others, but first be honest with yourself.